Eff Sh*t Up Friday – How is it that we are winning?

I was recently asked by a Twitter buddy how I can be thinking that we are winning with shit being so bad for women. I get it – things aren’t so good. Kavanaugh. Roe. Health Care. Separation of Children. Death of the Environment. I could go on and on and on…but I won’t because I…

Monday Mayhem – I AM a material girl

I got my palm read when I was in New Orleans this past weekend. He said, you know I don’t get to say this often but you are a really luxurious person…I mean you LOVE luxury. He was of course totally right. I am deeply interested in living a luxurious life. It started when I…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – Do we take abundance for granted?

When I was sitting in church last Sunday the sermon was all about abundance. When I was sitting in the Women’s Conference at Netroots Nation the conversation was all about abundance. In fact, one of my new favorite humans, Michele Jawando said, “Throw off the shackles of limitation in the spaces that you are. You walk…

Monday Mayhem – What if you could not fail?

What would you do if you knew you could not fail? I have been waking up with this question in my head for weeks. I would host marvelous dinner parties where women come together to learn, co-create, and empower themselves to engage in graceful revolution. I would write all the books inside of me instead…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – The Gathering

The Calling The Gathering The Rising Where women gather…change takes place. Where women gather…community builds. Where women gather…magic happens. What I know for sure is that the way to be everywhere is to give voice to other people. What I know for sure is that the way to be everywhere is to be the truth…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – The Army of Women

I am surrounded by strong, powerful women. I am surrounded by intelligent, thoughtful women. I am surrounded by beautiful, sexy women. I am surrounded by creative, witchy women. I work with women who get so caught up in their day they feel depleted. I work with women who get so caught up in their day…

You’re too smart to be a liberal…

Things many of us who do not support the current administration hear in 2018… You’re too smart to be a liberal. #ThankYou Someone told me I am going to Hell because I’m pro-choice. I laughed at him and reminded him that he doesn’t get to decide. #GodsJob A man told me he could tell I…

“Flesh vases for dick flowers.”

This week I watched Hannah Gadsby’s Netflix special “Nanette” THREE TIMES. If you haven’t watched it yet…do yourself the biggest favor EVER and watch it…RIGHT NOW. One hour and 9 minutes of complete magic. I promise you won’t be sorry and I would love to know which part struck you the most. She talks about stories….

Monday Mayhem – Anger…again…

What if anger didn’t lead to violence? What if anger didn’t lead to violence perpetrated by ourselves against our own bodies or other women’s bodies?   What if we feminized anger? What if anger… …led to passion… …led to action? What if we acted out of a space of passionate anger? We have to forgive…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – She’ll be worse they said…

My vote doesn’t count they said. The Supreme Court isn’t a big deal they said. The lesser of 2 evils they said. She is worse they said. I wish I could explain to you the depths of the anger I feel towards you. My birth control will never get taken away they said. I can…