Simple shifts (and swear word socks) make simple change

Keep at it and eventually you will see success. How often do we need to hear this message over and over? Sometimes when we don’t see immediate gratification, we think things aren’t working, so we tell ourselves some really choice things. Things like: I am a failure I should just give up This is hopeless…

Absolutely Everything is Progress

I don’t know about you, but I was brought up thinking that I needed to have a really clear idea of my plan before I made any choices about my career or relationships. That old school mentality has never really served me well. I mean…I do not have a detailed map about where my life…

The Devil is in the Details

Have you ever been so consumed with the details of something in your life that you are afraid to be present in your day to day existence? I have. Have you ever allowed waiting for the perfect moment stop you from doing the one thing your heart desired more than all else? I have. Have…

Freedom means tumbling into the rabbit hole of your desire

It’s easier to go back into what you know than to expand into the future. Working in repetitive motion means we don’t have to get out of our comfort zone. We stay in the unfulfilling job, marriage, education track, fill in the blank, because it takes more risk to follow our pull into the unknown….

What does freedom mean to you?

I recently asked this question of my Facebook followers and the answers were as varied as our personalities. Here is some of what they said: I believe there is a price we pay to live within and benefit from a structured society. For me, freedom is the ability to choose whether or not I live…

Monday Mayhem – This Pagan Christian Woman Walks into a bar

Just kidding…I walked into a church but none the less the premise is the same. One day in 2017 I walked into an Episcopal Church with my family. We were greeted by a lady named Phyllis at the door and given some rolls. As we moved through the service I wept and wept. It was…

Monday Mayhem – Conscious Transformational Love

Conscious love is “love in the service of inner transformation”—or if you prefer, “inner transformation in the service of love.” – Cynthia Bourgeault Love. Self love. Love of self. Romantic love. Love of others. Conscious love. Love of change. Loving with our whole entire hearts is an act of social justice. In a world that…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – Pro choice/Anti abortion shame

Fundamentally the pro choice/anti abortion movement cannot survive without women. It’s survival is built on the foundational premise that it is critical to shame each other and our choices as women. Now – I know this is troubling. When I shared this idea with my husband he said, “Whooo you are gonna piss some women…