Eff Sh*t Up Friday – Release yourself from election disappointment

I heard a lot of disappointment from my friends this week. I read a lot of disappointment on the Twitters this week. I saw a lot of disappointed faces grumbling about the election. Good change is like good sex…slow, deliberate, and consensual. Here are the AMAZEBALLS changes that took place this week: Two states sent…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – Vote B*tches

Vote because these women weren’t force fed and beaten for you to NOT vote: Vote because this is what happens when fascism is allowed to run rampant in a democracy: Vote because it is sexy. Vote because it is a turn on. Vote because it matters. Vote because you can. Vote because you can. Vote…

Monday Mayhem – YIPPEE I got a troll!

Oh, guess what? I have a new YouTube channel with all my amazing FB live videos on it! And do you know what I received as a special bonus gift when I loaded all of my amazing, juicy, feminist badassery onto YouTube? A TROLL! And he isn’t even cute. But he called me a DYKE…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – I EFFING LOVE YOU!

When is the last time you got a juicy love letter? Dear you, Yes YOU. Thank you for loving me. Thank you for gracing me with your delicious, juicy, magical ways. Thank you for becoming a part of my community and sharing with me all of the way that my words and my voice inspire…

Monday Mayhem – Sharing your gifts with others

As we were driving to church yesterday morning, I saw Rebecca Campbell‘s post about connecting with Mother Earth on Instagram. I thought about how interesting it is to be connected to a woman half way across the world. She and I putting a message of connection out into the Universe all because I read her…

Monday Mayhem – Formalize the Soapbox

This morning I was guest lecturing in a class at 6 AM my time (yes I am sleep deprived, this may ramble). One of the students asked me how to formalize their soapbox. And I thought, “THAT IS A GENIUS QUESTION!” There are 4 ways to really solidify what you want to say so that…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday – I am a prickly pear

Reasons to be angry: Boys will be boys unless they are black boys and especially if they are Brett Kavanaugh. A woman is beaten every nine seconds in America (Men Explain Things to Me, Rebecca Solnit, 2014). NINE SECONDS. NINE SECONDS. The Corvallis School District in Oregon is considering cancelling dances for high schoolers because…