Monday Mayhem – I AM a material girl

I got my palm read when I was in New Orleans this past weekend. He said, you know I donโ€™t get to say this often but you are a really luxurious person…I mean you LOVE luxury. He was of course totally right. I am deeply interested in living a luxurious life. It started when I…

Monday Mayhem – What if you could not fail?

What would you do if you knew you could not fail? I have been waking up with this question in my head for weeks. I would host marvelous dinner parties where women come together to learn, co-create, and empower themselves to engage in graceful revolution. I would write all the books inside of me instead…

Monday Mayhem – Anger…again…

What if anger didn’t lead to violence? What if anger didn’t lead to violence perpetrated by ourselves against our own bodies or other women’s bodies?   What if we feminized anger? What if anger… …led to passion… …led to action? What if we acted out of a space of passionate anger? We have to forgive…

Monday Mayhem – Let it go…and not in the Elsa way

Let go. Let go of what isn’t serving you. Tell the voices in your head to take a seat. The cacophony is getting too loud. You are enough. You are a worthwhile endeavor. Your worth is not determined by the amount of laundry you get done or the perfection of your dinners. Your worth is…

Monday Mayhem – Chaos, Devastation, Heartbreak

I am heartbroken and devastated. I am ripped apart and shredded. I am at my breaking point. I am ready to run. I would gladly get into my car and drive it to the edge of the earth never to return. It isn’t that I wish to die. I just wish to escape. To run…

Monday Mayhem – The Sound of Silence

Remember your magic. Remember you’re magic. -Lisa Lister   How often have I silenced myself for fear of being heard? How often have I denied my true calling for fear of being seen? How often have I deleted my unfiltered thoughts for fear of having my words twisted? How often have I shushed myself for…

Monday Mayhem – Mutilating the Patriarchy

Hello loves, I woke up this morning and wanted to write you a letter about advocacy. What is advocacy all about anyway? Why should we even do it? What does it matter? And where in the crap do we find daily motivation to keep going in 2018? Merriam-Webster defines mayhem as, “willful, permanent, crippling mutilation”….

Monday Mayhem – Hold the excuses

I don’t have time. I don’t have the answers. I don’t have the education. I don’t have the training. I don’t know the definition. No one will believe me. No one will take me seriously. I am too young. I am too old. Someone else is already doing that, I am just so sure. People…